K the last one i have posted.

then post those that don't just agree with you. Show those that offer different opinions but without the hate of the above post. Without occasionally showing a bad one like that, the rest of us don't know what your talking about when you complain of the many comments you get that are negative. Also simply eliminating comments because you don't like what has been left previously seem s a little petty without the context of what else you are receiving.
Show that you want actual debate of your ideas, not just agreement with your ideals. Anyone can find people who agree with them, will validate their opinions. To discuss with people who don't agree will strengthen your beliefs or will allow you to analyze your beliefs and see which truly apply and which are simply rhetoric.
Hopefully you will post this since it has no hate, only a hope for future discussion.
BTW ive said before that I would love to have you come to my blog and comment, say what you will. But to not communicate at all, well that is just pointless. We need people to talk out the problems, not let them fester. I comment because i want to understand why you believe what you believe, not just the rhetoric but the actual underlying reasons.

Odds are she won't post this comment, because it doesn't immediately agree with her. But we will see. Maybe she might even decide to come comment here. I doubt it though. Most people want you to come to them, but don't want you to disagree. It is sad in a way, that so many blame others for their shortcoming, instead of looking inside for the reason.